​It’s one of the biggest days of your lives. The day you get to meet God’s design, His gift to you, His child, your child; the one he has created and knows the number of hairs on their heads. 
 
Unfortunately, due to our uneducated culture towards birth and labour and delivery, our minds are cluttered with education, preparation, possibly fear and anxiety and questions listed for our care providers and doulas. 
 
We are busy preparing and in our preparing we tend to forget the aspect of our faiths and how it can be included in the process. 

Hello,
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My name is Taryn and I am a Birth Doula and Photographer. 
 
But I also have many other titles: wife, mother, sister, friend, homeschool teacher, christian, singer, to name a few. 
 
While you could easily read my bio to read a bit about me. I want to write more about me as a doula; my heart and my passion. 
 
Why am I doula? 

What is a Birth doula? Do I need to hire one? My friends say it was the best thing they ever did!

I hope to answer those questions here and what I, as your Doula could offer: 

​Doula verse Midwife?
 
A doula is a person trained to advise, inform, and offer emotional and physical comfort to a mother before, during, and after the birth of her child.

A midwife is a specially trained and licensed professional, who provide government-funded primary care to pregnant woman and their newborns.

​Have you ever considered what it was like to be the mother of Jesus? Imagine, being told you’re going to carry God’s son!? Had to raise Gods son!?
 
Let’s think about Mary’s pregnancy… Was is a miraculous pregnancy? 
 
Did he ever give Mary heartburn? Morning sickness? Did she have Braxton Hicks? Did Mary have mood swings and food cravings?

I can’t help to think what if Mary struggled to carry like so many of us woman experience in pregnancy too.  ​

Ecclesiastes 11:5-6 As you do not know the path of the wind, or how the body is formed in a mother’s womb, so you cannot understand the work of God, the maker of all things. Sow your seed in the morning, and at the evening let not your hands be idle, for you do not know which will succeed, whether this or that, or whether both will do equally well.
 
I had the thought the other day, if my season of being a stay-at-home mom mattered. Does it matter? Am I doing anything significant in this season?

Everyone wanted more time; well here it is. 
 
Covid-19 has impacted the world so greatly; people have lost jobs, mandatory isolation, social distancing rules. We are experiencing things that we’ve never been exposed to before. Businesses are implementing new rules, how they operate, even shutting down temporarily. 
 
No one knows what they are doing. We are all taking things day by day, waiting and expecting new changes, trying to go with the flow and the up in the air that is life right now. Isolated in our homes with countless unstructured hours.

​“Deep breath.”
 
I feel like sitting down to write this I need to practice deep breathing first. I got to be honest, life has been very overwhelming. I wish I could say ‘lately,’ but it’s been a string of significant event after the other the past few years for my family; new job, rough pregnancy, third baby, two moves and the passing of my grandmother. But honestly, just my life alone is why I need to deep breathe… I have three kids five and under. Three boys! I homeschool, I’m a stay at home mom and I just flat out have a lot of responsibilities. 

​I’m overwhelmed to say the least. Actually, overwhelmed has entered my vocabulary way too many times lately. My husband comes home from work and it’s usually how I define my day; overwhelming. Or before he leaves for work, I’m begging him lately not to go; “but I’m so overwhelmed!” 
 
I’ll be real with you all… I’m overwhelmed to the point causing daily high anxiety. ​

Everyone has heard the statement that a mom’s job is the “hardest job in the world.”
 
I can name many reasons for that statement to ring true; the endless to do lists, the sleepless nights, the many demands put on us daily in raising our tiny humans, etc.
 
Other than the constant worry we are even doing the right thing at all in this journey is the fact that we just don’t get a break! 

​Laundry, dishes, dusting, bathrooms, meal planning, shopping, appointments, pickups, and drop offs, my oh my... The list is never ending.
 
If you’re A-type like me, like to-do lists and checking off those lists, you probably struggle with the same part of motherhood as me...
 
How so quickly you can check off these items on your list only to put them back on your list a week or days later.
 
It never ends. The list is never actually ever complete.
 
Lately I’ve been really feeling bogged down by my lists, especially this Christmas season when the lists double. I’ve been letting my anxiety to take control and overcome my emotions; feelings of being overwhelmed, frustrated, over tired and just flat out DONE. My life just consisted of checking off this list that never ended.